Billy Bean jumps on board

“I believe we are nearing that moment in time when athletes lead the way as role models for fairness once again”

Billy Bean

Former Major League Baseball player Billy Bean, who has been an advocate for LGBT rights in sports since coming out in 1999, has been named vice chairman of the Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation.

billy_bean_02_1The group was started by former pro rugby player Ben Cohen to fight homophobia in sports. The foundation issued this release: The Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation announced that former Major League Baseball player Billy Bean has been named vice-chairman of its board. He will focus on helping professional leagues and athletes at all levels commit themselves to the fairness, equality, dignity and respect that defines true sportsmanship.

The Foundation, founded and chaired by rugby World Cup Champion Ben Cohen, MBE, is the world’s first dedicated to anti-bullying and equality in sports. “We believe it sends a powerful signal to all athletes and fans to see two highly accomplished professional sports stars, one straight and one gay, join forces to advance the acceptance and inclusion reshaping sports today,” said Patrick T. Davis, chief executive officer of StandUp.

Bean played major league baseball from 1987 through 1995. He broke into the major leagues with the Detroit Tigers, and tied a major league record with four hits in his first major league game. He went on to play for the Los Angeles Dodgers and the San Diego Padres. He kept his personal life a secret from the public and the sports world, before coming out as gay in 1999. “I want people to learn from my pain and journey, not repeat it. My dream is to help end this social epidemic called bullying that so many kids are subjected to each and every day in locker rooms and on playing fields,” Bean said. “I believe we are nearing that moment in time when athletes lead the way as role models for fairness once again. I am honored to serve StandUp as vice-chairman to help make that dream a reality.”

“Billy has worked tirelessly to dispel the myths and stereotypes that follow LGBT athletes. We can think of no better way to help create understanding, respect and real sportsmanship than from one major league athlete to another. It is at our core, and Billy will extend our work in professional sports,” said Cohen.

 

Big Comedy Gala in aid of Macmillan Cancer Support

We’re massive champions of the Big Comedy Gala in aid of Macmillan Cancer Support, not just because it was founded by Barry, but also because it always features a top notch line-up of comics from every aspect of life.

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Today, The Boy with Tape on his Face is announced as host and it’s probably the first time that a large-scale charity gala has been hosted by a silent comedian so it could be pretty interesting.  The two-hour Edinburgh Festival Fringe event will be staged at Venue150@EICC on Monday 12 August and promises a top-flight line up of Fringe acts.

318488_277339642288474_677390402_nThe 2011 and 2012 sell out shows, which raised a total of over £36,000 for Macmillan, were hosted by Ed Byrne and Roy Walker respectively. The Boy appeared on both bills alongside Frisky and Mannish, Josie Long, Hal Sparks (Queer as Folk), Susan Calman, Joe Lycett, Tom Allen and Sarah Millican, amongst others.

The event producer said: “We’ve been delighted by the response to this event over the past two years and have thoroughly enjoyed working with The Boy with Tape on his Face. Having a silent comedian hosting such a large scale gig presents a lot of less than conventional, yet exciting challenges – it’s sure to make for a unique and memorable night. The gala also represents great value for money, as audience members get two hours of entertainment from top comedians and artists for only £20 per a ticket – and of course, this money goes straight to a wonderful charity, adding to the feel-good factor”.

The Big Comedy Gala in aid of Macmillan Cancer Support is run entirely by volunteers with acts donating their time for free to raise funds for the charity. This would not be possible without the generous support of Suisse Design & Art Direction and Dupliquick. Tickets are on sale from 9th May on http://www.edfringe.com

Margaret Cho – She’s the one that we want

I got in “trouble” for outing someone. I don’t really feel like explaining it. It is much better if you actually just watch the video:

 

I got in big Twitter fights about it. (If you want to see them, they can be viewed here.) Twitter fights are kind of unfair, because there’s not enough ammunition in 140 characters. It’s just a bit of gunpowder and smoke and misspellings. No one really gets hit as hard as they should. I would love a social media site called “Book” with not just unlimited characters but unlimited chapters and bibliography-style hashtags. The sound that my iPhone would make would be that of a huge, leatherbound encyclopedia shutting really dustily: “You’ve got a new Book!” Then, if you want to fight, you can really throw the book at them!

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NYC or Bust…

LGBT champion and guest blogger Louise Oliver (remember her amazing love letter to Darren Hayes?) has a dream to study in NYC, drop kick Lea Michelle in the hoof and then steal all of Julianne Moore’s sexy ginger roles.

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For years now, she’s worked tirelessly in artist development, looking out for emerging talent and developing opportunities for others.  We at LGBTicons hope that it’s time for karma to kick in.

We’ll miss her loads when she finally heads over the water to study  in August, but in the meantime, she needs your support.  Here’s information on her Indiegogo campaign.  If you feel like you can help, please do…it feels really good to practise random acts of kindness.  Go ahead, try it!

 

Margaret Thatcher: Her Most Important Legacy

“Children who need to be taught to respect traditional moral values are being taught that they have an inalienable right to be gay”.

Barry Church-Woods

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Today marks the funeral of Margaret Thatcher.  It seems like lazy writing to say she was divisive.  It’s a word I’ve read a thousand times in the 9 days since her death.  During this period, I’ve witnessed street parties, national mourning, a very long yet well crafted documentary in Sweden and watched people tear each other apart on social media discussing her legacy and the legitimacy of rejoicing at someone’s death.  I’ve also made a joke about respectfully halting production of my S&M film The Iron Lady Garden.

It’s fair to say, as a child of the 70s I was never a fan.  Policies implemented under her leadership impacted directly on my quality of life.  Poverty was rife in the West Lothian New Town of Livingston with high unemployment and questionable avenues to education.

In 1988 however, Thatcher led on one policy that would forever impact my life.  Section 28.

Introduced during the AIDS epidemic as part of the Local Government Act, Section 28 stated that a local authority “shall not intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality”.

Short lived and repealed in 2003, the legislation was massively controversial, meaning that teachers in schools in Scotland, England and Wales faced fear of revealing their own homosexuality or discussing alternative sexual orientations as an acceptable way of life.  It was never illegal to do so, though perpetrators of these “offenses” faced disciplinary action and job uncertainty.

For many gay men of my generation, Thatcher will always be considered a hate figure.  Today however, I choose to salute her.

Not because of any misinformed loyalty to her or because she was one of only a few conservative politicians to vote in favour of the decriminalization of homosexuality in 1967, but because of this:

Section 28 was one of the most high profile attacks on the LGBT community carried out since the final solution.  It mobilized the LGBT community to get together and make a lot of noise about the infringements of gay rights.  It caused a national uproar and guaranteed homophobic front-page coverage of nearly every tabloid newspaper in the UK.  It got people talking and it got the LGBT community shouting.  We were not happy.  Things had to change.

In the 25 years since the introduction of Section 28, LGBT equality has come on leaps and bounds thanks to the tireless campaigning from groups such as Stonewall, the Equality Network, Outrage and many more.

2001 seen the implementation of an equal age of consent regardless of sexual orientation, the Civil Partnership Act of 2004 gave same sex couples the same rights and responsibilities as civil marriage and this year, Scottish and British parliament are both progressing laws to legalise same-sex marriage in Scotland, England and Wales.  Not bad for a quarter of a century.

Without a doubt, Thatcher changed the world.

It seems fitting that for a policy that impacted so widely on education to quote Newton’s third law of motion:

“For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction”.

To me, this cements her most important legacy.

I’ll leave you with a quote she gave to a series of small businesses in 1988.  I much prefer it in the context of this article.

“I came to office with one deliberate intent: to change Britain from a dependent to a self-reliant society — from a give-it-to-me, to a do-it-yourself nation. A get-up-and-go, instead of a sit-back-and-wait-for-it Britain”.

A Personal Appeal

It’s difficult to write this without sounding alarmist or too emotional or just plain scared.

If I had written this a month ago, I would have used the figure “40″.  If I had written this last week, I would have needed “80″. Today I must tell you that 120 gay men in the United States-most of them here in New York-are suffering from an often lethal form of cancer called Kaposi’s sarcoma or from a virulent form of pneumonia that may be associated with it.  More than thirty have died.

By the time you read this, the necessary figures may be much higher.

The men who have been stricken don’t appear to have done anything that many New York gay men haven’t done at one time or another.  We’re appalled that this is happening to them and terrified that it could happen to us.  It’s easy to become frightened that one of the many things we’ve done or taken over the past years may be all it takes for a cancer to grow from a tiny something-or-other that got in there who knows when from doing who knows what.

In four months, the number has risen to 120 of us stricken and 30 of us dead.

The majority of Kaposi cases are being tended to at New York University Medical Centre.  The doctor who is most on top of this situation is there, Dr. Alvin Friedman-Kien.  He and his associates are passionately determined to help take care of us and to find out what’s going on here.

Money is desperately needed, both for their research, which is going on around the clock, and for the treatment and chemotherapy of many of the patients who have no money or medical insurance.

I hope you will write a check and get your friends to write one, too.  This is our disease and we must take care of each other and ourselves.  In the past we have often been a divided community; I hope we can get together on this emergency, undivided, cohesively, and with all the numbers we in many ways possess.

New York Native, Issue 19, august 24-september 6, 1981

Larry Kramer

 

Bruce Weber: The Lies of Handsome Men – Vogue Hommes 2012

For a long time now, Bruce Weber has been one of my favourite photographers.  I could spend days writing about him and his various pieces of work, but you’d be better off just popping by his brilliant website to find out more (you’ll need bandwidth!) In the meantime, here’s something fun to tickle your eyeholes with.

Barry Church-Woods

The Benefits of Milk

“The fact of his homosexuality gave Harvey an insight into the scars which all oppressed people wear…He believed that no sacrifice was too great a price to pay for the cause of human rights.”

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Shortly before he was assassinated on November 27, 1978, San Francisco City Supervisor Harvey Milk stated that, “If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door.” Harvey Milk was the first openly gay political candidate to win an election at a time homosexuality was misunderstood by the general public and fear still kept many gays and lesbians in the closet. Writing in Time magazine over a decade later, John Cloud observed that, “…he had to adjust to a new reality he embodied: that a gay person could live an honest life and succeed.”

Harvey Milk’s Early Life and Influence

There was no “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy when Milk served in the navy. Being gay in the 1950’s simply meant that you didn’t tell. In high school, Harvey Milk was on the junior varsity basketball team. After his years in the navy, he worked as a Math and history teacher and later campaigned for Senator Barry Goldwater. But Milk didn’t hide from being gay, championing gay rights as he became politically involved after moving to San Francisco with his lover.

Harvey Milk built a political club that enabled his election victory but also demonstrated that the gay vote was important. After his death, politicians took a more proactive stance in courting this voting group. Normalization in terms of heterosexual perceptions years after Milk’s assassination played a large part in the legalization of same-sex marriages and the general acceptance of so-called civil unions. Milk’s election as an openly-gay man and his subsequent murder forced observers to react, and in doing so brought issues into the public sphere that had never been openly discussed.

After his death, San Francisco Mayor Dianne Feinstein observed that, “The fact of his homosexuality gave Harvey an insight into the scars which all oppressed people wear…He believed that no sacrifice was too great a price to pay for the cause of human rights.” (Quoted in New York Times, December 3, 1978) Over three decades after Milk and Mayor George Moscone were shot by Dan White, same-sex marriages are allowed in several states and homosexuality is no longer viewed as a mental disorder or perversion.

The Fight for Civil Rights

Although there were many heroes within the gay community in the latter decades of the twentieth-century, especially during the first years of the AIDS crisis, Harvey Milk established a precedent and became a political role model. In his biographical account, The Mayor of Castro Street, Randy Shilts observes that Harvey Milk “…remains frozen in time, a symbol of what gays can accomplish and the dangers they face in doing so.”

During his brief tenure as a Supervisor, Milk shepherded a Gay Rights ordinance toward passage that protected gays from being fired from their jobs because of sexual orientation. Had his life not ended prematurely, Milk might have brought the leadership and energy needed in the early years of the AIDS epidemic to confront the disease much sooner than it was, saving lives and promoting awareness. Milk fought for civil rights for all groups, including senior citizens.

Harvey Milk’s Battle Continues

Harvey Milk has been referred to as an “unlikely populist.” KQED/PBS correctly assessed that, “…If a gay man can win, it proves that there is hope for all minorities who are willing to fight.” Thirty-five years after Milk was gunned down in his City Hall office, homosexuality is still a moral issue and part of political debate. GOP candidate Herman Cain believes that homosexuality is a sin (Jonathan Capehart, Washington Post, October 20, 2011). Michele Bachmann, during a Meet the Press interview with David Gregory (August 14, 2011) dodged any direct questions put to her about homosexuality, although her husband runs a clinic that “cures” gays.

Discrimination and gay-bashing continues. On October 12, 1998, Matthew Shepard was murdered in Colorado. The horrific crime highlighted on-going persecution of gays in American society. Shepard was tortured and left to die in what has come to epitomize a hate crime. Contemporary concerns regarding bullying in the nation’s schools has also focused on the plight of gay teens. In mid-October 2011, a male cheerleader at Alice High School in Texas was kicked off the varsity team after a school surveillance camera recorded him kissing another male student.

Harvey Milk directed critics to see gays as people that deserve full equality with every other American. Keeping differences a secret, as Shilts notes in his biography of Milk, was learned early in life as a survival mechanism. Harvey Milk, however, soon determined that the fullness of acknowledging one’s humanity is determined by self-honesty. For Milk, that meant embracing who he was.

References:

  • John Cloud, “The Pioneer HARVEY MILK,” Time, June 14, 1999
  • John M. Crewdson, “Harvey Milk, Led Coast Homosexual-Rights Fight,” New York Times, November 28, 1978
  • Larry Kramer, “Gay ‘Power’ Here,” New York Times, December 3, 1978
  • Randy Shilts, And The Band Played On: Politics, People, And The AIDS Epidemic (St. Martin’s Press, 1987)
  • Randy Shilts, The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk (St. Martin’s Griffin, 1988)

 

Copyright Michael Streich

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